Relationship help

I am aware of my thoughts about my relationship that is creating my reality. Examples of my thoughts:
I’m not connected to him.
He should initiate sex.
Our relationship is hard.
This is going no where.
He doesn’t make me feel special.
Being in a relationship with someone else would be easier.
We’ll never get back to where we were.

I don’t know where to go from here. I listened to the live coaching call where Brooke talks about being radically honest. I want to do that in my life… but yet I’m not honest with him. But yet being honest about me not feeling connection/frustrated is due to my thoughts not him so why talk about it with him? So I end up not talking about any of these and just going through the motions.
Question: should I talk to him about these things? What options do I have?

Thank you