Relationship Models Day 1


I have a question about my models (regarding day 1 this month of relationships). I currently make all of the money and support the family, which causes a lot of resentment for me towards my husband. I was working on some models, but I the result is not evidence of the original thought. Any ideas on how to tweak these?

Unintentional
C: I support our family
T: I work my ass off while he has freedom to do what he wants
F: Resentment
A: I am short-tempered, fail to connect with him and avoid intimacy
R: we grow apart

Unintentional
C: I support our family
T: He’s lazy while I do everything
F: Resentment
A: I am short-tempered, fail to connect with him and avoid intimacy
R: we grow apart

Intentional?
C: I support our family right now
T: He is trying to be successful and is working on starting a career
F: Supportive
A: Encourage him and ask him about work, look for positives
R: More communication and closeness