Hello,
I did my thought download. Here is what comes up.
I really like my current bf but I am not in love. I am missing that enthusiasm that my ex had about my business and his support.

C: J. says “yes, I like what you do”
T: He does not express enthusiasm about my great idea as I do
F: Alone
A: Do things by myself, make my own decision.
R: Progress in my business

C: J. says “yes, I like what you do”
T: He does not express encouragement as my ex did
F: Alone
A: Write to my ex . Miss him. Want to see him and talk about my great ideas and have his feedback
R: Have more insight about my business. Having doubt about my current relationship and getting back to the idea that I should go back with my ex

C: Asking for business advice from my ex
T: He will give me great advice
F: Opportunist
A: Asking him. Empowered in my project.
R: Take the right decisions with more confidence

C: Asking for business advice to my ex
T: He will give me great advice
F: Smart
A: Asking him. Empowered in my project.
R: Take the right decisions

C: Asking for business advice to my ex
T: Replace the missing enthusiasm that I have with J.
F: Unfaithful with J.
A: Seeing my ex. Developing a relationship with my ex
R: Not able to move in my relationship with J.

C: Asking my psychologist for advice about asking my ex for advice
T: She will comfort me in the idea that I should not
F: confident
A: Ask my psychologist. Make a decision knowing it is wrong and contact my ex
R: My relationship with my ex is not over

All this ends where I need the support and ideas of my ex, which will help me. But it will instill doubt about my current relationship with my bf, and my feelings that I am unfaithful to him.
I can think that I just need need support from my ex for my business, but it will end in doubts. And the issue is that I am still looking for my ex strengths in my current BF, and I am not in love with him. But he is a great guy.

Hope it is clear.