Relationship Work – “been meaning to tell you” letter


This morning’s work for me is the letter and I am looking at the lines “I admire you for…” and “I love you because…” and have nothing to write. I am going back to re-listen to the podcast Love 2.0 but in the meantime I thought I’d ask for some help. Models I’m working with on this are:
C: “I admire you for” sentence
T: I don’t admire anything about her
F: confused (is there really nothing I can write here?)
A: don’t complete the sentence/assignment
R: I missed something in my work?

C: “I love you for” sentence
T: I don’t feel love
F: nothing -honestly, not sad/happy/love just “neutral” as if this is about a stranger on the street
A: don’t complete the sentence
R: I missed something in my work? I’m not feeling love (which is all on me)