relationships day 2

so i wrote down how my bf should act. haha
he has a lot to learn. Just kidding.

what i don’t seem to get my head around is how can I still feel all those emotions without him acting this way.
like i think i understand this intelectually.
But when we do that will it last forever?
i just have this thought/belief in my head that there are person who make you feel this way without you having to change your thoughts. But they will “trigger” these thoughts in you.

would love to hear yout thoughts about this one.