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thanks for your answer! 🙂
i went back to the moment and i think only say these things because my brain is on default.
my family did that a lot. like they did lots for us but when we had a fight. They just kept telling us: “we do so much for you!” bla bla.
and i somehow took it over.
What can you do with such default modes?

to answer this question
If you gave without expectation, then why would you give?
ANSWER: JUST BECAUSE I WANT TO. AND BECAUSE I WANT TO BE THIS GENEROUS LOVING PERSON. I WANT TO BE PROUD OF MYSELF.