Requesting feedback on model – went on few dates and he didn’t ask me out again


Unintentional Model
C I went on a couple of dates with a guy, and he did not ask me out again.
T He wasn’t interested because I was awkward and not enough (sexy, attractive, inspiring, whatever)
F awful
A feel less confident, ruminate, focused on the ways I’m not enough
R less confident, less attractive, kind of depressed, more likely to be awkward on future dates with someone I’m attracted to

New Model

C I went on a couple of dates with a guy, and he did not ask me out again.
T I was just attracted to him because I wanted some of his characteristics in my life – sexy, creative, daring, disciplined, free, and financially independent – but I have decided I AM all of those things.
F Courageous
A Build my business, take great care of myself, solve my own problems
R I am sexy, creative, daring, disciplined, and financially independent

Anything I should do to clean up these models? Thanks!