Response to Model Feedback and Help with Intentional Model

“Why is it a problem that she stops by when you aren’t there? How does her visit connect to it not feeling like your home?”

The meaning I am giving this situation is that she is not respecting that I am now living in the house and not certain why she stops by when we are not there. It makes me feel like it’s not my house if people still have the keys and feel they can just stop by whenever they want. I value my privacy and I just want my partner and his siblings to be understanding of this. I have a difficult time believing that it’s okay that she stops by when we aren’t there. However, the intentional thoughts that “It’s possible that this house can feel like home” is more believable to me. However, I still feel angry whenever this happens. Any feedback on how I can navigate this would be greatly appreciated.