Ressources about love/infatuation?


I focus on the “Connexion” course this month, and my conclusion so far is that my life would be much happier if I didn’t put all the pressure to get my needs fulfilled on my partner.
I see that I consumed a lot of novels and movies, as a teenager, that showed that connexion with a romantic partner is the most important thing in the world… that you should have a fusional connexion with your partner… Even today, I see a lot of posts on Instagram emphasizing romantic relationship… (or I guess I had the belief “connexion with a romantic partner is the most important thing in the world” and then I see evidence of this belief everywhere?).
Would you have some ressources for me to take distance from this representation of love? (essays about how love is been taught in our societies and why?)
I guess you will ask me, what I want to think about love and being in a couple, independently of what pictures and stories I see in the society?