seeing a guy

i’m seeing this guy and when i’m with him its great – but he never texts me unless i text him – he never asks about my day, says any compliments, etc…so i feel disconnect during texts, then i see him and its fine…yesterday i texted about dinner/movies this weekend and he never responded…so then today i texted “your lack of response is making me think you dont want to hang out this weekend?”

So now i feel like a fool for texting that – haven’t heard anything
My mind is spinning that its so obvious hes not into me – so why do i keep pushing it? But then i don’t want to make assumptions-maybe this is the way he is…
how do i get my power back and realize this circumstance (him not responding) is neutral?