I’ve been in Scholars for a year and I now see things in models. Whether it’s my Model or someone else’s, I feel so peaceful and empowered because I know that everything any of us feel, do or experience is because of a thought.

My question is around how to be compassionate when someone believes you’ve caused their feelings. I understand it’s rude to say “uh no I didn’t; your thoughts caused your feelings” but I also feel like I know the secret to their problem.

Even if they aren’t blaming me for their feelings and they’re blaming someone else, I see their problem in a Model and have difficulty commiserating with them.

I don’t want to seem cold but I also don’t want to pretend to agree with them. Any suggestions?