I fully understand that we cannot change our circumstances or other people and that this in and of itself should feel empowering as we alone hold the keys to our own success. This sometime however feels very hard, possibly disempowering, when we have to rely on ourselves 100% to make the changes we want in our lives. I also get that this is totally an optional thought but again I am going around in circles here.

We are totally responsible for our lives and our development and success so when things don’t go as we had hoped or planned we have only ourselves to ‘blame’ as it were and it is back to the drawing board, back to doing the hard work on ourselves. It sometime feels very tough relying on ourselves in this way and no one else.