Self-worth NAR

I’m beginning to realize that I really have some self-worth issues. I think the challenges lie in have a mother who didnt value herself and not standing up for myself over and over. Its been most apparent in my business and personal life. Recently Ive been starting to stand up and state my worth in my business, even though it has felt scary and I cant believe how good it feels afterward. Now, my husband has been in some pain and has no tolerance for much. He’s been hard to deal with and he’s been yelling at me and Ive been taking it (which is something ive done most of my life). The fact that Im standing up for myself in my business gives me hope I can stand up for myself with him. Do you have any suggestions or advice on doing this in a loving way? Any other suggestions to help me to continue my self-worth?