September homework starting late

Hello team,
I am uncertain as to what to choose because I do not have much difficulty in planning and getting things done at least professionally. But I do have a lot of difficulty to stop being a people pleaser for instance. Is there a way I could fix that through the homework of this month?
Listening to the aligned model podcast, another question arose. My dream is to be a mom. I really want to have kids, but somehow I always sabotage myself so that it does not happen (get drowned in work, get the wrong guy, dump the right guy…), is there something I could do with that?
I do not know how to act as someone who would be a mom one day at all!!!!!!!!
thank sooooo much for your help,
much love to you all and the whole scholars community,