sex life with husband, we both want one but some how don’t have one


There was a point in our relationship about 5 years ago when we both got busy.  Sex life became the last priority.  A couple years later, husband admits to having a porn addiction because he was so stressed out and I traveled a ton for work.  Then, by some miracle, out of the handful of times we had sex in those couple years we had a baby.

We can’t seem to get our sex life back.  I find myself blaming him because I’m the only one who brings up the fact that we don’t have sex. I feel like I have put the effort out there, but feel rejected.  Husband claims he wants the same things, but fails to follow through. My question is how can we both figure this out?  We both want a sex life again but don’t know what to do. Thank you.