Attraction is a feeling that is created by our thoughts, of course.

But where does sexuality fit into the model?

I feel like every time I say “attraction comes from our thoughts, we are in control, we can choose thoughts that generate attraction”, I’m dismissing and undermining people’s sexualities and almost suggesting that sexualities are chosen! Which is OF COURSE not what I mean.

So is it possible to just explain it as “attraction is created by our chosen thoughts within your sexual orientation”? Would that be correct according to the model?