Sharing the cleaning responsibility


Hi Brooke and coaches! Not sure how this question fits here, but thought I’d ask: I do most of the cleaning at home, but I don’t want to be. If I don’t do it, it won’t get done, or it will only partly get done, and then I have to live in a dirty house. Cleaning takes up a big chunk of my time but I do want to live in a clean home, and so does my partner. I want him to share to responsibility so we both get to share in the cleaning and having free time. How do I do this? I know I shouldn’t try and change him, but his actions affect me and changing my thinking about the hours I spend cleaning only reminds me that it’s only ME doing it. How do I get the result I want (clean home) and not be the only person in my home taking all the action (that benefits everyone)?