Trying to figure out healthy way to respectfully request someone not tell me I should be better at something. I understand why they think that but they are confused. For myself I reframe it as I “could” be better at it and am not internalizing their ” should”. However, do I just leave it at that. I feel like I should tell them hey – that’s not okay to tell me how I should be. Or just let him think what he wants to think without saying anything.