Sister in law

So interesting. I was doing a TD this morning and I ended up on the topic of my sis-in-law. She’s one of the places that shows me my growth for sure.

What I wrote was: I feel obligated to invite her every time I do something with my friends because I feel bad that she doesn’t have many friends. I know what that’s like and I don’t want her to feel that way. But the truth of it is that I don’t want to be with her all the time. She feels very judgmental and I have better things to do than to try to give her what she needs and fail at it because she thinks I’m not doing it right.

What’s my growth with this one?