My husband and I have been helping my sister for 16 years. She’s a single mom with 5 kids. We are happy to help her until these past few years. After 16 years of helping her and hoping to see her move out of being stuck in her life for her and her kids, we are getting tired of helping her and watching the same results in her life. We are always concerned about the kids and it causes a lot of tension between me and my sister. Presently, my sister is living with me and my husband and because I am sticking my nose into her business ALOT, Im always the bad guy. I know I need to get my nose out of her business but, I feel bad for the kids. I don’t want to fight with her anymore and just wish she could get on her feet.