SON wants to get married

C: My 14 year old son said “I am getting married (to this particular girl) when I turn 18.”
T: That is too young. Please give yourself time to get to know yourself, live some life, and enjoy meeting new people.
F: fearful
A: don’t say anything, try to ignore he said it, offer myself some comfort by telling myself it’s 4 years away, anything can happen, want to control how much time he spends talking with her or seeing her, come here for coaching