Still Working on The Model


Brooke.

Okay. Still working on getting a model – here is a more specific C.

I appreciate your direction and patience as I continue to work to get where I need to be on working the Model. I will get this!

C: Husband states to third party “my wife doesn’t want to drink coffee anymore. She wants to drink tea. I like drinking coffee with her she is ditching me”
T: He is putting me down – telling someone else I have failed in some way
F: controlled, responsible for his happiness
A: Lose desire to engage with him
R: We grow apart

C: Husband states to third party “my wife doesn’t want to drink coffee anymore. She wants to drink tea. I like drinking coffee with her and she is ditching me”
T: He feels connected when we are doing the same thing and he likes to feel connected to me
F: lucky Husband still seeks ways to stay connected; loved
A: Remind him that even though I am drinking something different, I am still sitting with him, connecting with him
R: We enjoy our morning drinks together – stay connected