Struggling With Relationship With Son

I’m in a place right now where I tend to be parenting with a lot of anger and frustration. It seems that everything my son does gets on my nerves, and I can’t even find a second to pause before I react.

It’s gotten to the point where it’s hard for me to be around him because I get so annoyed with some of his behaviors.

I don’t want to feel this way towards my son because he is a good kid, and I don’t want to diminish that.

But I’m struggling really hard to come from a place of compassion, curiosity, and kindness towards him.

It’s one of the biggest challenges in my life right now.
Please help me process this.