In my weekly private coaching session today my coach brought up the concept of how we imagine ourselves through someone else’s eyes. I had an epiphany that whenever I become overly attached to someone in my life, it’s because I’m actually overly attached to how I think they see me. For example, I like how they see me (as imagined by me) better than how I see myself. But ironically, it’s me imagining how they see me anyway! So I think if I could get a hold of that and own it,  if I could decide to see myself that way, I would feel a lot less clingy and needy and a lot more peaceful in my own life. I really want to do some work on this and I know I can work on it myself, but I wondered if Brooke has any study vault materials or specific podcasts that deal with this exact topic? I’ve been looking around but not finding this exact thing yet…thank you!