Surrounded by problems

Hello, I am a relatively attractive person with at least average intelligence  However, I feel as if I sometimes am a problem solver and other times an overwhelmed person surrounded by problems – divorce, rats in garage, mess all over house, mail I haven’t read, children, ex, $.
T = I can’t do all of this on my own
F = discouraged
A = do some things, there is still more.
Think about how I am behind.
R = still more things to do than I can do. Not enjoying my life