Here is my backwards model. I have been resisting using my mind to practice new thoughts.
But I want connection. Fighting is killing our connection and no one wins.
I have been the one doing the work and need to stop feeling the need to be right.
Results. Connection with Husband.
Action. Let him be right when we reach a conflict. Think loving feelings of connection. Manage mind around any conflict and think what kind of connection do I want? Loving. Grounded.
Thought. He is doing the best he can and he is human. I am doing the best I can and to be connected I need to practice loving him and letting go of the need to be right
C: words said by husband.