Teenage daughter

I am having a hard time with my 13 year old teenage daughter. She is angry and sullen and doesn’t want anything to do with me. I am so worried about her and while I know she needs my love, my worry (over her listlessness, the things she is interested in and how she is acting) is getting in the way of being a loving parent. She seems too young to be going through this aggressive pushback and I am really scared of what 16, 18 years of age might bring.