Tell other people what you think about them

Hi Brooke!
Thank you for everything you are doing.
In the last coaching call, you told a scholar that had negative thoughts about her mum that she did not have to tell her mum about these thoughts.

You don’t have to tell people what you think about them.
This is not being unauthentic, because these are THOUGHTS and judgements that are not true, either.

So you can have an authentic relationship and not tell all your negative feelings about them. This is YOUR work to change your thoughts, not the person.

I completely understand this. But I’m facing troubles with employees and I have to tell them what I think, even if they are only my own judgements. But they are not performing well and I am responsible.

Can you help me on this?

Thank you so much!