Things Happen Because They are Supposed To? (Diane)

Thanks for the answers…I’m learning.

Another question.

You answered my previous question with this:
“….and open yourself up to finding how the way it did happen is exactly how it was supposed to happen.”

So, my question is: do you have belief in predestination?…of thinking that things happen exactly as they are supposed to, including divorce, accidents, murder, tragedies, etc.
do you choose to think that thought because it makes you feel happier?

I am finding it tricky to tell myself that things happen the way they are “supposed to”. Who is in charge that is causing this “supposed to”? To me, predestination is a disempowering concept…just sit by and watch things happen the way they are supposed to…