Thinking I Can Choose Me

I’m working with my current thought which is “other people’s priorities are more important than mine” to become “my priorities are just as important as other people’s and that’s okay.”

I can believe this thought and it makes me feel hopeful and excited. But thinking forward – I’d want to get to the point where I can believe “I know when my priority is more important than someone else’s.” How do I get there? or is this the wrong question?

Should I really be asking how do I get to the point where someone else’s priority becomes mine or it doesn’t depending on what I want as my results?