This month

Im having troubke with the confidence thing and setting ip dares. I think of myself as a pretty confident person. I dont understand how making up ideas or circumstances to put myself in benifits me. Like if i were to order dinner at a resturant and ask it fir free it will only bring me embarressment. If my dinner came and i didnt like it and ecen ate half i would complain and say im not paying for it. So where should i ho with this. Im not going to set myself up in situations that will hurt or make people uncomfortable when whatever the circumstance is just to to put myself into an uncimfortable position when normally its not even something that woyld have bothered me or i was afraid of doing. Am i making sense?

Thanks RG