C: Money and debt
T: We can’t afford another baby
A: Think about how much I want another baby
R: Feel sad about not having another baby
C: Another baby
T: I wish I wouldn’t spend so much time thinking about another baby
A: Beat myself for thinking about another baby so frequently
R: Feel terrible, still no baby
C: I am “advanced maternal age,” according to western medicine
T: Time is ticking, running out to have another baby
A: Think about how we don’t have enough time, money, resources, energy to add another human to our family.
R: Spemd time being sad + no baby
I’m so in my brain about this that I can’t see any other models. Can you coaches offer any?