I just contacted a friend to see if her kids want to come decorate Christmas tree houses with mine, like they have every year for the last probably 10 years. She said, “Yes, it’s a tradition.” Then I was texted another friend to see what their plans were over Christmas, and she said she was going to the first friend I mentioned house for Christmas Eve, which is also a tradition for all of us for many years. We were not invited. I’m so sad about this. I’m feeling like cancelling the house decorating. Or confronting the first friend. I’m just so hurt. How do I process this?