I’m having trouble coming up with a result for this model.  I’ve stepped away from it for a little while and came back to it but I’m still not sure.

C – husband said “I can’t believe you want to give them money”
T – he’s being so unreasonable
F – annoyed
A – ask why this makes him so upset, tell him I don’t understand why this is such a big deal to him, tell him I won’t give them money if it’s that important to him.
R – I don’t give them money (which is what actually happened)

Or

R – I’m being unreasonable (which is the most obvious answer since that’s what my thought was about him, but I don’t feel like I was unreasonable. Especially since I acquiesced and didn’t give them money.)

Thanks for your help.