Understanding the model


Hello, I want to make sure that I am understanding the model correctly.  Here is my model:
C : Decision to make about going to my country
T : Going there but not wanting to
F : anxious
A : delaying my decision to go. Circling in my mind. Should I go, should I stay.
R : Having arguments from now on with my parents. Taking my energy
Is this model OK? I try to correct it and it looks like sometimes I put thoughts in the A line. I put first in this model : being on defensive with my parents. Having arguments with them. Are these thoughts or actions?  The R line looks like also as a thought?