Unintentional Model and Intentional Model

C – Mom’s Colonoscopy
T – It all falls on me
F – resentful
A – leave distressed message to my siblings expressing how I feel
R – siblings come through and help out

C – Mom’s Colonoscopy
T – We are all in this together
F – grateful
A – express my gratitude, divvy up responsibilities
R – united siblings

My question is – the results here are pretty similar, even with opposite thoughts. How do I make sense of these models?