Using the same intentional thought

Hi Brooke,
I find myself using the same thought in my intentional models: “Everyone has the right to think/say/do as they please; just like I have the right to think/say/do as I please.” I tend to do this when I have angry thoughts about the way some one is behaving towards me (e.g. my mother sharing her opinion and I think it isn’t any of her business). The new thought is very freeing and I feel more accepting and loving of that person. I just find it odd that the same thought seems to work in so many situations/models. Is this normal or am I not digging deep enough?
Thanks, Jenny
P.S. I just joined Scholars this month! Whoop whoop!