Victim mentality

I am trying to find a more neutral circumstance, because this C is soooo linking to a victim mentality thought and I really don’t want to be stuck in it. My mind goes directly to “this C is mean”.

C – My sister’s boyfriend invited my boyfriend, my best friend, and many people I know to the screening of his work, but not me.
T – They don’t care about me and they are not even pretending to be polite
F – Anger
A – Avoiding him, thinking bad thoughts about him, stressing when I have to see him, etc
R – Distance