OK, i get that its our THOUGHTS that cause our feelings. But they change when we meet other people.
so there are people who bring out other thoughts in us other people other thoughts. also known when we have good thoughts = “the right person” and we have negative thoughts “not the right person”.
you know what i mean??
what i currently believe:
i don’t believe i will be the same in every relationship.
i believe that other men will bring out other thoughts in me.
i believe that i will meet someone and there will be no doubts.
and these believes make me suffer.
cause i have negative doubtful thoughts sometimes and i believe there is someone who can make the go away.
so i freak out because i have these negative thoughts and think that there will be another person/Situation in which i won’t have them.