Want to do vs Have to do

I have a few days without the kids at home and my wife has expressed her desire to rearrange the house. I am facing my own resistance to this because all I want to do is clean up and play – I feel like a kid without the parents around. I want to be lazy, play games, play tennis, play guitar, watch crappy tv, eat take-out and feel good.
I’m resisting against doing what i feel i “have” to do vs what I really “want” to do. Thanks!