Want to go with the flow more

I want to be flexible in my life and go with the flow more. I’m a working mom of two little kids and I find that I’m great at being flexible when I’ve eaten breakfast, gotten a good nights sleep, the kids have napped, school is in session, etc. Basically, if I can control all the things I can be flexible. It’s no surprise that I can rarely control all the things. I end up feeling frustrated and disorganized when unexpected things happen.

How can I think new thoughts and go with the flow more?