My fiance does not want to include my former mother and father in law in our wedding. I have a close relationship with them and they are involved with my kids (their grand kids). Below are my old and new models. I am having trouble with the new thought. What am I missing? I have a feeling I can’t control what he decides, so it should not be in my action line?

C: Wedding
T: Fiance doesn’t want to include parents of my ex husband in the wedding
F: Helpless and wronged
A: spending hours thinking about the issue and thinking how stubborn fiance is.
R: holding a grudge

T: ?
F: satisfied, fairness
A: invite former inlaws to the wedding
R: think of my fiance as the best guy in the world:)