Over the weekend I emailed someone I like (find them attractive etc.) It was just a short email with a link to a resource we had talked about. I thought they would email back and say “thanks” or something but they didn’t. I kept checking my email all weekend and was sad when I didn’t hear back. In my mind, if they didn’t reply it means they don’t like me the same way I like them. I ran 2 models and was wondering if you could look at them and see if they need cleaning up a bit. Thanks!!!!!
C: Sent email on Saturday
T: If they don’t reply they don’t like me.
F: Anxious
A: Keep checking my inbox
R: I don’t get a reply and I feel sad.
The new model:
C: Sent and email on Saturday
T: I am so busy living an exciting life, I don’t have time to check emails very often
F: Happy
A: Go running, cook nice meals, do all the things I enjoy doing (within the quarantine rules)
R: I don’t care if I get a reply or not