What comes after people pleasing and being the expert?


Up until about a year ago I was always a people pleaser. I’ve been in business for myself since 1989 and this has been one of two driving factors. The other was being the expert in (fill in the blank).

These were the motivation for much of my life. They have influenced how I thought and what I did in most situations.

Enter today. I am no longer a people pleaser. I am no longer striving to be the expert. So…what’s up then? Those two thoughts used to be my motivation for practically everything that I did. Today, I am in uncharted territory.

What comes AFTER people pleasing and being the expert? Is it pleasing myself?

What resource(s) should I consider or what questions to ask to find my new “motivation” in this area.