What would have to be true for me?

Could you expound on this topic?
You answered someone else by asking what would have to be true for me to accept someone’s else’s story of me?

I don’t seem to go anywhere from here…
I seem to have feelings of exclusion, inklings of thoughts like well I’s have to have confidence, what seems to come up is the idea of unwavering….
but we’re human right? We’re gonna not be on point in social settings sometimes right?
What would have to be true for me?
Feeling like I had a group to belong to seems to come up as answer…. (not ideal to me as an answer lol)

Any thoughts? Or how can I get to the bottom of this for me – belonging, people pleasing as been the things coming up for me to deal with for awhile now. . . Thank you!