I understand what you mean when you say “when someone feels love towards me, THEY get to experience that love. Not me”. But I feel like when we love someone, or they love us, we DO get to experience it because they treat us differently. If I’m feeling love for my husband sure, I get to experience that wonderful feeling, but he benefits because I’m more affectionate and more cuddly and I smile more and I say nicer things to him. And visa-versa. So I do feel like I play a part and have a responsibility as his wife or as a mom or friend or whatever, to make someone feel loved by how I treat them.