Who am I?

Thought** I have walked on egg shells my entire 30 years of marriage and have lost myself.

Feeling** Insecure (I think).

Action** I don’t speak my mind since I am not sure if I have thought the consequences of my opinion out. Try to think of what could go wrong if I say something I don’t mean as offensive

Result ** I don’t speak a lot or i sensor what I say.

What would be a neutral Circumstance? And , would you kindly help me clean up my model? I am still struggling with keeping it clean.