Who am I?

I have heard in one of the classes, and I can’t remember which one, this concept of who we are.

Most people try to define themselves as what they do. I am a mother, a teacher, a wife. I have also heard it said that we are not our thoughts.

So what questions can I ask myself when trying to define who I am if I can’t pull from my thoughts and I can’t pull from my titles? Who am I then? I know I can be whoever I want to be that it’s really just what I think about myself.