Working on my vision of relationship

I have difficulties in my romantic relationships

TD : my boyfriend is kind of lame but everyman are either kind of lame OR completely lame.
Relationships don’t make you happy anyway. Nobody can be really happy within his or her couple.
But I want to be in a relationship.

My impossible goal would be to have a great romantic relationship exciting and respectful and fun and nice and peaceful !

But I really don’t know how to get there (I mean I have to figure out how to get there)
At the same time I don’t believe it is possible.