When husband doesn’t buy me gifts for birthday or Christmas and would rather go with friends on weekends..
I tell myself… thats ok, I don’t really matter.
But then I don’t really take of myself, like I don’t get ready for the day because I say it doesn’t matter… could u help me with some ladder thoughts cause I know I am the only one that can make me feel like I matter regardless of what he does or doesn’t do..
Just can’t think of a middle ground thoughts..
And , “I matter” doesn’t really sound true.